How I stay a Happy boy:

It usually starts with a little bondage:
or

"Acceptance"

From the Alcoholics Anonymous Big Book
Pp 449, 450,451. A. A. World Service, 1976, N. Y.

"And acceptance is the answer to all my problems. today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation---some fact of my life---unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment. Nothing, absolutely nothing happens in God's world by mistake..."